Get your ex back and getting back with an ex

 

Do you want to get back with your ex

 Often there can seem to be a stigma with trying to get back together with your ex but there can be many reasonable reasons for wanting to get back together with your ex. Maybe you've both had time apart to re-assess your relationship or it's been a while apart and you've both had time to mature and reflect a little. Whatever the reason, it can be worth considering giving it a try especially as otherwise if you never try you may never know. Sometimes it can by no means be easy to get back together, as if you do start going out again you've got to get over the "honeymoon" period to remember fully and properly why you broke up in the first place.

This can be very difficult to navigate through the challenges that lay ahead as the main difference between this relationship and a brand new relationship is you could be starting from a negative position instead of a neutral one. It may be likely that one person will be driving this relationship at first until you move on from the problems from before but it can be really worth it. You may have some good trust between you, the genuine honest love between you is still strong, you know each others not-so-good points and let's be honest we all have them, it's about how we deal with them. Sometimes it's not about making a definite decision to get back with someone, you may just have this "feeling" it may not be rational but you could be thinking "why not give it a go?". It may help to be prepared to compromise your pride and ego because if you're the one who initiated the get-back-together you may question this when times aren't so good, or your friends and family question it. Unfortunately you may have to be more patient than you would with another relationship, because as mentioned before your relationship could be starting from a "negative" position.

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